This powerful exploration of the Christmas story reveals that joy isn't just a fleeting emotion dependent on our circumstances—it's a deliberate choice we can make regardless of what we're facing. Through the experiences of Mary, Joseph, and the wise men, we discover three major obstacles that threaten to rob us of joy: stress, resentment, and confusion. Mary faced unimaginable stress as a teenage girl facing scandal and uncertainty, yet she chose to trust God and accept His plan. Joseph dealt with deep hurt and betrayal, but instead of seeking revenge, he offered grace and let the pain go. The wise men encountered confusion about their direction, yet they followed God's guidance one step at a time. These aren't just ancient stories—they're mirrors reflecting our own struggles. When we're overwhelmed by anxiety, wounded by others, or uncertain about our future, we can apply these same principles. Joy becomes accessible when we recognize it as that settled assurance that God is in control of every detail of our lives. Unlike happiness, which depends on our external circumstances, biblical joy is an internal character strength rooted in God's presence. This Christmas message reminds us that we don't need to have everything figured out or perfectly resolved to experience joy—we simply need to trust the One who holds our future and take the next faithful step forward.